Central Park, New York
This entry is inspired by the movie Gravity. A choice needed to be made and determination was the main motor as Ryan faced the possibility of death. She realized she wasn’t living on earth and looking from space into the world, she summarized her true feelings through a series of technological tests. As soon as I stepped out of the theatre back in December I said to my friend, “If you’re gonna live, you might as well live.”
As we know, television and the internet consumes most of society. Who doesn’t want to be entertained? The matter is that if you see something that is inspiring, then go do it yourself. Don’t let life be lived from the couch. Most people spend their whole time watching others live theirs. There has got to be more to that.
For me, living is breaking routine. My routines are predictable. I have to do new things, even in photography. I tend to stand in the same places. I have to walk to different angles and take shots from where I would not usually think of. Last month I was in the ocean in Biloxi, Mississippi. I was sitting in the car comfortably because it was cold outside. I watched others walk along the beach. Then I thought I should get out of the comfortable and experience the setting much closer. So I took a long walk and enjoyed observing the seagulls. This was better.
Living is about taking opportunities, taking risks. It is about breaking the mold. Living is experiencing. It is about learning new things, new patterns. Living is about enjoying the moment and sometimes just getting through it (not giving up). Live- don’t just exist. Only you can live your life and make it what you want…If you’re gonna live, you might as well live!
We all need a team of people who will encourage us, help us overcome our obstacles, listen, walk life’s journey and celebrate our victories. It is good to share with those who genuinely care about us our goals and dreams. Unfortunately, not everyone shares in our vision. Sometimes our own family does not believe in us. Friends do the same. When you share they say, “Yeah right.” At this point you should know not to share deeply. You need to know that you can choose your team. It may consist of one person or two. It may grow to more. The bottom line is to pick people who will always encourage you and not tear you down. They can challenge you but not deter you from what you want to accomplish. My all-time favorite movie is Rudy. His father and brothers don’t believe he can go to Notre Dame. Nevertheless, play football. His best friend who always believed in him dies and this catapults him to forge ahead and make it happen. Slowly but surely, Rudy picks his team of people to confide in. He passionately seeks every door and tears it down with boldness and courage. He does it! He becomes a part of the Fightin’ Irish school and football team. I love the fact that it is based on true story. There is a Rudy in every corner of life…you might be one, you may have a passion that you believe in but that others don’t. Don’t stop yourself from pursuing that dream. Only you can make it happen. Rudy’s mentor tells him, “In this day and age you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone except yourself.” You can’t have countless of fans until you make it happen. Throughout life, I heard people say, “People will believe in you when you believe in yourself.” Go for your dream, you can do it!
The only resolution I want to make for this year is to live in the moment. What does this mean? Be there. Soak it in. Enjoy. Stretch the happy effects the moment brings. Learn. Meditate. Don’t curtail the moment. Don’t rush it. Listen. Observe. Make that person you are talking to feel that they are worth listening to. Be still. Seek peace. Laugh. Love. Live. Share. Say what you need to say. Embrace the person. Embrace the day. Be aware of your surroundings. Be aware that you exist. Yes, you are important and alive. Enjoy the journey of the day. Do one phase at a time. Capture the moment. Give your best. Receive. Wrap the moments in gratitude. Don’t dismiss the little things. Don’t minimize the little moments because they can be great. Stretch. Feel your heartbeat. Look into someone’s eyes and feel them.
Today I took a hike through the woods of North East, Maryland for an hour in 40 degree weather and it was great! You start off cold and end up warm. It was stimulating and satisfying. Finding the trail was fun. Moving past the brush was a bit painful (thorns) but doable. Jumping the trees on the ground was quite entertaining. I observed all angles looking for differences. I didn’t think about other things beyond my walk because I want to remember it. I’m learning that when I don’t multi-task (thoughts-wise) I am able to capture more from the moment.
I do have short-term goals and long-term goals for this year. It will be the proactive disciplines that will help me accomplish them. They are important to me. Just one resolution I have in mind…that in all I do, I can be in the moment and appreciate all that I am doing. Even the hard things bring many lessons, knowledge and wisdom. May I fully develop the discipline of living in the moment.
*All these pictures were taken in North East, Maryland in December, 2013
**I want to post my pictures only in this blog. I found this piñata in a Mexican bakery in Chatsworth, Ga.
Our Christmas tradition growing up was to go to my grandparent’s house in Mexico to attend La Posada. It is a Mexican celebration. It includes music, singing, dancing, playing games, hitting a piñata and eating great foods. The foods consist of tamales, pozole, buñuelos, empanadas and other desserts. Everyone would get a bag of candy and other gifts. The Nativity scene was always present. It was the reason we got together, to celebrate the birth of the Messiah. Joy To The World is one of my favorite songs. It describes the meaning and reason for the season. La Posada was a magical experience! Everyone was so happy and every moment was precious. La Posada lasted late into the night and continued when everyone woke up. I was so happy seeing my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins having a good time. Growing up all I cared about was playing outside, so toys and dolls did not mean much to me. Mothers bring their children together but grandmothers bring more people together. This celebration was about giving my grandmother that joy and honor by being there to celebrate together the joyous occasion. My last posada was over ten years ago. Beautiful memories are all I have of this awesome tradition. I wish I could back and relive those moments. La Posada is definitely my best memory, experience of Christmas. Today, all I want is what the lyrics to Kelly Clarkson’s My Grown Up Christmas List talks about.
“No more lives torn apart
That wars would never start
And time would heal all hearts
And everyone would have a friend
And right would always win
And love would never end
This is my grown up christmas list”
Carters Lake in Chatsworth, Georgia
It was a beautiful fall day in Carters Lake today. It was so cold, just right for today. While some parts of the country have snow already and are preparing for more, Georgia’s clear weather was just perfect as it is nearing the year’s end. The sunshine was bright and warming while the sky was a bright blue. I went hiking with friends and with three dogs. Buster decided to get into the water. I was surprised he got in the freezing water but it made him happy. Oh well. We were there for about an hour. The water was clear and inviting (I so wanted to be in a canoe!). My favorite part of the hike was walking to different angles and grasping as much as I could. After a while of walking I got warm and wanted to take my jacket off. Cold weather used to keep me inside but not anymore. I have to get soak in some of it. I need to see the scenery in its every season. It felt so good to be out there and take countless of pictures. Andy (Osito) was so happy as he was running everywhere. Hiking up the hill was no problem for him. He was like, “Yeah, yeah, yeah!” Only nine more days of fall therapy for those who can get it. I’m heading to Maryland where there is eight inches of snow with more coming. I will have to make snow angels, several snow men and have my fill of snow. I look forward to it but I want to retain today for as long as I can. Walking on autumn leaves feels so good. It is such a good experience that I just can’t describe. It is definitely a gift. Not everyone gets to experience every season and so, for me it is just wonderful.
North East, Maryland
When I was a child the end result mattered the most. Whether it was a goal or a travel destination, it was about getting to the endpoint as quickly as possible. When I matured I started seeing life differently. I appreciated all the work, effort and purpose it took to get there. That is when I was grateful for the prize all the more. Life’s intentions and resolutions unfold in their timing. The way it unfolds can be trying and disappointing. At that point patience should be in the backpack. A voyager knows that anything can happen in their travels. They carry gear for their journey and a positive mindset to get to their destination. Their greatest strength is to find the adventure of getting out of their troubles. That is why the voyagers always have a survival kit. In life, we all should acquire survival skills as well. Keep seeking, keep asking, keep knocking, keep walking and keep the eyes looking ahead. There is a time for everything. Take time for rest and renewal when you feel burned out. Exercising good principles and values is needed for endurance. Though life can be tough it is also rewarding.
The Main Point of Our Journeys
Is it not to live to the fullest and find the answers
that bring healing to our hearts and souls?
Is it not to go down memory lane and laugh again
over the dumb things done?
Is it not to reconnect with old friends
and to put new photos in the album?
Is it not to travel the harder roads
and collect new understanding on these paths?
Is it not to meet new people and see new places
to add new lyrics to our life’s song?
Is it not to push when needed
and rest when we can’t go on?
Is it not to continue
and discover all the wonders of the world?
Is it not the journey
that makes life worth living?
© Alicia Joann Pena
New Orleans, LA -From inside the home
Here are some quotes to reflect on this holiday. I thought I’d gather a couple to reflect the attitude of the heart and mind. We always have so many things to be thankful for. It is important that we know how blessed we are. It is important that we know how much we have. It is important. The quotes come from different authors. They share truth and insight about material things and honorable thinking.
“If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million who will not survive the week. If you have food in your refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75 percent of the world. If you have money in the bank or in your wallet, you are among the top 80 percent of the worlds wealthy. If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful, you are blessed because the majority can, but most do not.” Author Unknown
“Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes of which all men have some.” Charles Dickens
“God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say “thank you?” William A. Ward
On Thanksgiving Day family and friends gather for a special occasion. The warm, delicious meals are filling. The conversations and play times are many. The most precious single time is seeing each other face to face, exchanging hugs and smiles. A good tradition to implement is to go around the table one by one, that each may share what they are grateful for. Thanksgiving, the holiday, is great and once a year. Each day is a gift and we should share in it. When thanksgiving is in the heart it can be whenever.
A woman is sewing clothes for her clients. The clients come at different times of the day to her home. They discuss what type of fabric is needed and what design the client wants. The seamstress takes her client’s measurements. She cuts her own patterns. She dedicates so much to making the clothing. People drop off their clothes for alterations but she double checks the measurements first before they leave. While she is sewing, beans are cooking on the stove. The washer and dryer are running. She is giving a lecture to one of her children in a chair across her sewing machine. She gets a call and the son or daughter has to sit there and wait until she is done talking on the phone. I sat in that chair many times. She made a lot of clothing for me. I loved that I could choose any design and she made it perfectly. She is a professional multi-tasker! She has strong beliefs, opinions and values. She is so passionate about many things, it is seen in her endless talking. She makes fresh tortillas (corn or white flour). She gathers her family around the tables, her husband and eight children. She converses mainly with her husband about the tasks that need to get done. Her children praise her for her cooking. She is pleased. Often times during a meal, a client will come by. She cannot say “no” and attends to their needs. She comes back to dinner and finds out how her children are doing in school, what items are needed for school and what events are coming up. She loves to sew and her profession is known throughout the community. She makes skirts, shorts, dresses, blouses, wedding dresses, quincenera dresses, prom dresses, cheerleading outfits for schools and costumes. She sews for more than ten hours a day on average. Her sons run errands for her and her daughters help with chores. Her husband is proud of her and of her accomplishments. She does so much and does her best sewing to give her family the best she can.
In Memory of San Juana Pena de Loera
The Grand Canyon, AZ
I was once told, “It doesn’t matter where you start but where you finish.” I contemplated what it meant. People have started in great places of life only to finish in disgrace. People have started life in despair, like poverty, and have attained much success. Throughout life, I knew people who were successful in many things but somehow threw away the keys that got them there. I’m hopeful they can get them back if they want it. I have also known people who have had humble beginnings and much adversity, yet chose to press forward no matter what came their way. You’ve heard, “It is never too late to start.” This is so true. As long as we have life we can pursue all those dreams that were born within. I’m convinced that we can do anything but the main person who holds us back the most is [me]. The winners and the courageous move past the naysayers. They silence their foes with a dogged determination to achieve every goal and desire. I thoroughly enjoy the stories and testaments of faith of people who turn their lives around. A man’s story comes to mind. He shared that that his parents were drug addicts and grew up around all sorts of junk. His father left when he was only twelve. He sister overdosed while his brother went to jail for life. He was never studious and didn’t care for anything. In his early thirties, he had an encounter with Jesus. He felt the love he always longed for. His life dramatically changed for the better. He got married and started medical school. As a doctor, he knows that people can transform, improve their health and their lifestyles. It is definitely a mindset. The main point is to press forward and not to ever give up!
Audubon Park, New Orleans
Changes will come in life. It is inevitable! That is what life is, a constant change. We live and we die. Changes come when we least expect them. Sometimes changes come, like a hard-hitting illness, yet it comes with grace to embark on a journey of healing. For example, though people know they will die, they strengthen their relationships and mend those that need mending. They love passionately and they gracefully embrace each day as a gift. They make every hour count and leave wisdom behind by making every word count. We already know what it is like when we don’t allow change to unfold in a healthy way. People become depressed, angry and bitter. Then the domino effect starts and ends in chaos. Why not let the changes bring out the best in us? Let it bring out the finest in you, me. Let the change bring the renewed passion for life so that we can inspire others. Those who choose to change the negative into positive live much fuller and richer lives. I wrote a poem about being changed within. The purpose is that through changes I may have a good perspective of life.
Change by Force
At night when I am asleep
I awake to the whistling wind
It comes from afar
with force swaying trees
back and forth causing leaves to fall
The branches are close to my window
they hit it once in a while
I decide to go back to sleep
then thoughts come back to me
just like the wind
the force which I cannot see
It hits and makes noise in my daily life
How far does it come
and why does it shake
my thoughts and feelings
making changes in me?
At the turn of every season
is when I feel it most
My, how things change fast
And my response
is to sleep
And when I rise
I hope there is
a good change in me
© Alicia Joann Pena